Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR)


Resolve Disputes Efficiently, Privately, and with Less Conflict

At Nijmeh Law, P.C., we believe that not every family law dispute needs to be settled in a courtroom. Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR) offers a more cooperative and cost-effective approach to resolving sensitive matters such as divorce, custody, and property division. Serving San Jose, Santa Clara County, and the greater Bay Area, we guide clients through several ADR options that prioritize discretion, control, and efficiency—without sacrificing results.


What is ADR in Family Law?

Alternate Dispute Resolution refers to legal processes that allow individuals to resolve disputes outside of traditional litigation. In California, ADR is widely encouraged—especially in family law—as a way to reduce courtroom congestion and help parties reach agreements more amicably. Whether you are ending a marriage, establishing custody, or negotiating support, ADR can offer a practical, respectful path forward.



At Nijmeh Law, P.C., we help clients explore and engage in the ADR method best suited to their case, whether that’s mediation, collaborative law, arbitration, or judicial settlement conferences. We also assist with court-ordered processes and act as legal advocates to ensure your rights and interests are protected throughout the resolution.

Types of ADR We Help Facilitate

Mediation


Mediation is a voluntary, confidential process in which a neutral third party—called the mediator—helps both sides communicate and reach a mutual agreement. The mediator does not make decisions but facilitates productive discussions.


  • Best For: Divorce, child custody, visitation, support modifications, co-parenting plans
  • Benefits: Cost-effective, quicker than court, confidential, promotes cooperation
  • Our Role: We can either represent you during mediation or prepare you for the process while ensuring all proposed agreements serve your long-term interests.
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Arbitration


In arbitration, a neutral party hears arguments and evidence from both sides and issues a binding decision, similar to a private trial.


  • Best For: Financial disputes, contractual issues, property disagreements
  • Benefits: Faster and more flexible than court, often less expensive, private
  • Our Role: We can help you decide if binding arbitration is right for your case and represent you throughout the hearing.
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Collaborative Law


This process involves both parties and their attorneys committing to resolve the dispute without litigation. If either party leaves the process, the attorneys must withdraw.



  • Best For: Divorce and custody cases where both sides want to preserve privacy and avoid court
  • Benefits: Less adversarial, encourages open dialogue, preserves relationships
  • Our Role: We guide negotiations, protect your legal interests, and help create customized agreements with long-term viability.
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Settlement Conferences


Often court-mandated before trial, settlement conferences involve a judge or neutral party who assists both sides in reaching a resolution.


  • Best For: Cases on the litigation track, where the court requires a final attempt to settle
  • Benefits: Judicial insight without a formal ruling, can lead to resolution before trial
  • Our Role: We prepare your case for settlement discussions, represent your position clearly, and evaluate offers with your goals in mind.
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Use of Special Masters


A special master may be appointed in high-conflict or complex cases—particularly those involving child custody—to manage specific issues, such as scheduling, communication between parties, or discovery disputes.



  • Best For: High-conflict custody disputes, procedural disagreements, detailed discovery
  • Benefits: Efficient case management, expert handling of narrow issues, reduces court burden
  • Our Role: We advocate for your position before the special master and ensure that their rulings or recommendations align with your legal objectives.
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Why Choose ADR?

  • Saves Time and Money: ADR is typically faster and more cost-effective than litigation.
  • Private and Confidential: Proceedings are not public record, preserving your family’s privacy.
  • Empowering: ADR allows you and the other party to control the outcome rather than leaving decisions to a judge.
  • Less Stressful: Collaborative problem-solving reduces emotional and psychological strain.
  • Court-Mandated Compliance: In many California counties, including Santa Clara, Alameda, and San Mateo, family courts may require parties to attempt ADR before trial.

Is ADR Right for You?

ADR is not suitable for every case, especially those involving domestic violence or severe power imbalances. However, for many families, ADR provides a constructive path toward resolution. At Nijmeh Law, P.C., we take the time to evaluate your case thoroughly and advise you on whether mediation, arbitration, or another form of ADR aligns with your goals.


Whether you are seeking to resolve your divorce privately or looking to minimize court involvement in a custody matter, our firm can help you navigate ADR with confidence and clarity.

Schedule a Confidential Consultation

Explore whether Alternate Dispute Resolution is right for your family law case. Call Nijmeh Law, P.C. today at 408-642-1346 or schedule your consultation online. We proudly serve clients throughout San Jose, Santa Clara, Oakland, Alameda, San Mateo, and San Francisco.

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